THIS IS IMPORTANT OK.

dylans-nose:

PLEASE, I KNOW MEL WAS A GIANT ASS SCARE, BUT WE HAVE ANOTHER PERSON TO SAVE.

PLEASE, IF ANYONE CNA GET INFORMATION ON http://rena-is-bear.tumblr.com/ THAT WOULD BE GOOD. PLEASE HELP.

taurusnitram:

940) Compassion Alert (Urgent Red Alert)

compassionalert:

http://perfectlyydestroyed.tumblr.com/ (SI/ED Trigger Warning) wants to take her life tonight. Please respond and reblog! 

“Red Alerts” are cases where someone is at very high suicide risk or has stated that they definitely will kill themselves soon; please respond to these immediately.

CompassionAlert and ReverseCyberBullying - dedicated to alerting Tumbloggers when another blogger is at risk of suicide or could use extra support and kindness though a tough time. 

 Please only ‘like’ this post if you are responding to it, so that we can tell who has been helped and who still needs help. If you are not responding but want to help, please reblog rather than ‘like’ to avoid misleading us about who has been assisted

I’d care if the person I reblogged this from committed suicide.

grandhighbloog:

vexatiousidler:

tcooksshit:

You don’t seem the suicidal type, but I’d care if it happened.

YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH I’D CARE.

I’d care if anyone committed suicide.

curlyisaderp:

manarchyd:

makeshiftmisery:

cheddarfruit:

yeah, but then i start thinking in detail about all the ways it could happen and then i think about ways i wouldn’t want to kill myself

then i run out of options because it all sounds terribly inconvenient. there’s no real comfortable way and i’m a gigantic pussy.

thus i waste another day away in bed wishing i had a cat and some cigarettes.

and as to how many notes this has, i think everyone at one point in their lives, has been or will be down in the dumps and have the thought pop up in their minds at one point, even if only for a split second.

Many many many times

This year included.

Yeah, but every time I ever though about it seriously, I just told myself that if I did that, how many people I’d be hurting,and I would never want to hurt anyone I care about like that, which kind of seems selfish, assuming many people care about me, but, uh, it worked.

So really, even if at the time I didn’t want to live for myself, I’d just decide to keep on living for the sake of living, for all the people I’d hurt in doing such a thing.

This is embarrassing.

On how we treat each other.

grandhighbloog:

grandhighbloog:

Wow so this is probably going to be really dumb because between the time I was in the shower thinking very clearly and angrily and to when I finished this just now my thought process died. So prepare yourself for a really dumb rant. I’d readmore it, but I don’t want to.

So if you don’t like it, just simply scroll past.

Also feel free to ask me about anything. I’d love to engage in a conversation about this. And it’s easier for me to answer questions than to express myself.

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Let’s talk a little about anger, insults, hate, and how we use it. :)

People need to stop and THINK before they say or do things that could be hurtful to others.

Of course there are the small things that people might get unnecessarily offended over and while you should be mindful of those things, let’s just clear up that, that’s not what I’m talking about.

I’m talking about the people that think it’s okay or think it’s AMUSING to purposely attack or insult someone just because they can. Do you really think that’s okay? Because I hate to break it to you, but it’s not.

You never know just how strong of an affect your actions can have on someone, and you never know what could be going on in that other persons head.

It’s NOT hard to be nice to people. It’s really not. Coming from someone who has anger issues and can be a REALLY fucking awful person, I KNOW. Think you absolutely HAVE to say something mean back? No you don’t. It is NOT hard to express a little self control and think before you say something. What if it slips out anyways? Apologize immediately. Say you’re SORRY. If the person can’t accept that you made a human mistake there’s nothing you can do and you just have to move on.

I used to be like that. I used to be mean and horrible to people. I thought it was amusing and it made me feel powerful. But in the long run it just made me hate myself more, and I realized it was a cause of a lot of my problems.

Not that trying to be fair and equal to everyone now doesn’t have IT’S problems, but still. I don’t hate myself for being a prick anymore.

I wonder if anyone has ever done challenge day before. If you haven’t, I suggest doing so. It’s kind of a huge eye-opener.

You can never tell what an actual person is like by the color of their skin, the shape of their body, the clothes they wear, or anything else for that matter. You also can’t tell based on how they act in certain locations where they might be restricting themselves.

Not all rich people are snobs. Not all homeless people are trash. Either of them could be the nicest person you ever meet.

What goes through your head after you instult someone? You feel big, right? Feel strong, above the person, tough, enthralled. Did you ever stop and think afterwards? Did you ever feel bad but continue the behavior? If you felt bad you might want to stop and keep thinking on it. Take a day. Be rude to some people, do your usual routine and see where it gets you. The next day only be nice to people. Compliment people, tell them you love them. Which feels better?

Just. Words are strong. When someone says “leave me alone” and you respond with “I’m not touching you,” chances are that’s not what they meant. Sometimes people can handle physical abuse but they can’t stand the emotional abuse. Sometimes it’s the other way around, it goes both ways.

Over a year ago my friend hung himself.

One of the last things he told me was that he “hated how people treated each other,” but other than that he was always a very happy, kind, person. ): You never know what’s going on behind things, and sometimes you won’t without asking. Sometimes you still won’t know, even if you do ask. That’s why people need to think before they talk, and care about other’s just as much as they care about themselves, if not more.

It’s just depressing that there are people out there that aren’t as strong and in order to deal with how nasty people are they have to hurt themselves or even go so far as to kill themselves because they can’t handle it. ):

Just.

Relax every now and then.

Think.

Breathe.

Give yourself a moment before you act.

I want people to read this, and reblog it if they see fit.

Reblogging because people need to see this.